Friday, June 4, 2021
INO, MY BUDDY, MY COLLEAGUE, MY INSPIRATION…
I received the news of Ino’s passing with utmost sadness. As tears were rolling down my face, I was reflecting on what this beautiful person meant to me. In 1976, my first year in Edison, I was assigned to teach a class of ninth graders. One day, one of the students received a low grade and begged me not to tell Mrs. Sowder as she didn’t want to diappoint her. Throughout the year and by the students’ comments, I learned that Mrs.Sowder was a Spanish teacher (in John Adams) whom they respected and liked very much.
In 1977, I was assigned to John Adams and I had the pleasure of meeting the beloved Mrs. Sowder. I was immediately captivated by the classy manner in which she treated everyone in school: with a big smile on her face, she made each one feel special. She and I hit it off right away, and that was the beginning of our BFF journey.
As time went by, I learned that Ino was an incredible family member. She happily spoke about her Mima and Pablo, Ida, Armando, Ida’s boys, and, of course, Armandito. She was very proud of her husband’s accomplishments, but the love of her life, her hero —as she called him— was Matthew. Her eyes would light up when she spoke about him. She used to talk about his adventures and she and I compared military stories, due to the fact that my sons were in the Air Force as well.
Ino was a priceless friend who cared about the well-being of others. Her compassion made her the teacher whom students who needed a little extra love were assigned to. Her patience and sweetness made people feel at ease. Probably what I admired the most was her positive vision in a crisis, her calculated calm and optimism were an inspiration to me. She believed that she could face any challenges that came her way.
Professionaly, I enjoyed very much the 34 years I worked with Ino. I had fun with her creativity, more so, during our last years teaching at the elementary level where she allowed her imagination to run free. The angels must be delighted with the new arrival, she must be teaching them Spanish through songs.
Ino brought joy to my life. My heart is broken, but I thank God for placing such a unique, superb person in my path. Rest in Peace, my dear friend! I will love you forever!
Esperanza Kays
